Virtual Mistress

If you aren’t looking for that perfect domme to put you in your place but still have the burning desire to serve, a virtual mistress may have a place in your future. There are communities of people with the same feelings as you. They have created computer programs that will control you. Some are designed to domme you for a ‘session’ and some are designed to work 24/7 and could involve you having to complete certain chores etc…

Virtual Mistress Programs

Sex Scripts

There was once an extremely large community who used a free program called CyberMistress.  This was a very popular tool which used user made content as well as a built in cyber domme to control you. It unfortunately disappeared, and many attempted successors started appearing online. Sex Scripts appears to be the eventual winner. It is also free and more importantly it is open source.

sexscript, virtual mistress, cybermistress, cyber mistress, online domme, online mistressThe demise of CyberMistress angered a lot of people as they had many hours of content which was now useless. Sex Scripts addresses this by handing out the source code to anyone who asks. There is a growing library of user made scripts, some of which were old routines from CyberMistress that have been modified to work for Sex Scripts user interface. Sex Scripts is a Java program (user content is made with Groovy) and will therefore work on any operating system running Java. You can check out Sex Scripts here


Virtual Master is an older program which works only on PC. Their website describes the program:

The program enables a sub to design her/his own “virtual master/mistress” to which she/he can report, ask permissions, ask instructions etc. Or it enables a master/mistress to set up a set of rules for a sub, who can send reports back to the master. The program is intended for long term use.

There is an active Yahoo Group and I believe the program is still being updated and developed further. There are not many scripts created for you but it does depend on a custom script to take full advantage of the program. You can either create this yourself or have your Mistress make it for you. I believe some people have created scripts for each other in an exchange scenario. A feature of this program I really like is the webcam integration. You can be instructed to complete your punishment (such as corner time) in front of a web cam. The video is then sent to whoever agreed to receive your reports. The program also works well without someone to monitor your progress.

You can download the program on their main website-

The active Yahoo Group can be found here- 

There other programs which are now outdated and no longer updated, or have an active community following. I’ll avoid listing them here for now. If you have any knowledge of other virtual mistress control programs please leave a comment and I’ll add them to the list.

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