If you are genuine sub and want to serve a Mistress online, then you will probably wonder at some point, how the hell can I do that? If you were with her in real life, then you could do lots of stuff to make her life easier (cleanin n shit!). Online though, it’s more difficult to be of use, but it’s not impossible to serve a Domme online.
Btw-the term Domme, is not exclusive to Professional Dominatrixes. If you’re having trouble finding a lifestyle Domme or just a dominant chick, then this post should help- How to Find an Online Mistress.
Basically anything that actually helps her. It’s simple. I’m more interested in what service is not though. It’s not play. You’re not actually serving her when you stick a carrot up your ass on Skype. If that’s all you’re interested in doing, then you better stick to paying for sessions with Pros (absolutely nothing wrong with that btw!). She might find it funny, sexy and she may even get off on it, but it’s still just doing the cyber nasty. Which I suppose could be thought of as a service, since you got her off, but every online Domme has hundreds of guys, many better looking than yourself, offering to shove carrots up their asses for her every day. So it’s not really service.
How to Serve an Online Domme
With your money
I know!!! Stop pulling your hair out, it’ll be ok. It’s not what you wanted to hear, I’m aware of that. But it’s true, if you can’t clean her place from 5000 miles away, maybe you can pay for a cleaner. It does make her life easier. It’s not financial domination!!! It’s just like paying for dinner. Chivalry is not dead within Femdom relationships, subs pick up the check. To be clear, I’m not saying you should be sending money at the start of your first conversation to any Domme, unless it’s a Pro, then she’s running a business. You shouldn’t even see this as an obligation. I’m not talking about paying her per the hour here or even a once a month payment, just simple stuff, people take for granted in real life. If you’re in a relationship with someone, you buy them a birthday present, you do Valentines day, you buy drinks at the bar etc…
With that said, not every dominant woman will even take your money online. It isn’t the only way to serve someone.
Isn’t everyone offering to be a web design slave these days? It seems like they are. But if you are a genuinely skilled web designer then this a legitimate service you can offer to someone. Show her previous work etc though, as Dommes get these offers daily. This is actually a great way to serve a domme online, because a true quality web design service will set you back hundreds of $£€. Offer to pay the hosting costs as well and you’re doing good. That’s like $5/month, if you’re not willing to spend that on someone you want a relationship with, you’re just taking the piss.
If she’s in college or has other work you can help with, you could always go down the homework slave route. As long as you can actually help.
This is actually a fantastic way to grab someone’s attention. A well written poem, which isn’t creepy, will make any girl feel awesome. Just avoid the major cliches (Roses are red, violets are violet…). Everyone loves to feel like the most special person in the world. If you make someone feel that way, then you are serving them. I don’t care what anyone else says.
Being Relationship Material
If you’re a nice person, have a great sense of humour, are a great listener (all the normal stuff for a relationship) then you’ll attract dominant women. If she loves talking to you at the end of a long day, that’s a service, right?
Send her a dick picture
All dominant women really enjoy seeing pictures of dicks in their inbox. So be of service and send as many as you can.
Don’t send dick pics to people, that was a joke. Unsolicited dick pics are bang out of order, but that’s for another blog post
So, how can you serve an online Domme? Try and do everything you can to make her life easier, effectively. Or you can always just ask how you can serve her. If none of this sounds appealing to you, perhaps you are only submissive in the bedroom, in which case finding an online partner (without going pro) is tough, so you might want to head out into the real world of kinky munches and fetish clubs etc… But if genuine service is your game, opportunities are out there. I once put a page up on this website, offering my services as a web slave. I got 10 emails per day (doing my little bragging dance just now).
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